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Supporting Your Anxious Child with HeartMath® Techniques

Anxiety in children can be challenging for both parents and children. It can manifest in different ways, such as being shy, clingy, or overwhelmed. As parents, you want to support your child and help them manage their anxiety. One of the most effective ways is through HeartMath techniques. HeartMath is a research-based method that helps regulate emotions and stress responses. This blog post will explore ways to support your anxious child with HeartMath techniques.

Supporting Your Anxious Child with HeartMath® Techniques

Teach Your Child Heart-Focused Breathing™


One of the core aspects of HeartMath is practicing Heart-Focused Breathing™ and cultivating positive emotions like love, gratitude, or compassion. Encourage your child to place their hand on their heart, take deep breaths, and think of something that brings them joy. This simple exercise can help bring calmness to the mind, regulate the heart's rhythm, and promote a sense of peace and well-being.

Practice Quick Coherence®


Quick Coherence® is a trademarked breathing technique that synchronizes the inhale and exhale with the heart's rhythm, typically at a rate of five breaths per minute. Research has shown that Quick Coherence® can help balance the autonomic nervous system and reduce anxiety. Teach your child to breathe in and out slowly, counting to five on each inhale and exhale while focusing on their heart's rhythm.

Use Positive Self-Talk

Anxious children may have negative thoughts that fuel their anxiety. Encourage your child to challenge negative self-talk by using positive affirmations. For example, they can say, "I am calm and in control," or "I am brave and strong." These affirmations can help alter your child's perception of their anxiety, build resilience, and promote a positive self-image.

Practice Mindful Awareness

Mindfulness is a popular technique that involves paying attention to the present moment without judgment. It can help children identify their anxious thoughts and feelings, be more aware of their triggers, and regulate their emotions. Please encourage your child to practice mindful awareness by focusing on their senses, breathing, or body sensations, such as feeling their feet on the ground or the sun on their face.

Make HeartMath a Daily Habit

Like any skill, HeartMath takes practice. Make it a daily habit for your child to include HeartMath exercises in their routine. You can incorporate HeartMath techniques into everyday activities before bedtime, during meals, or while traveling. It can be a calming and enjoyable bonding experience for you and your child.


Anxiety in children is a complex issue requiring a multifaceted approach. HeartMath techniques can be a valuable tool to help your child manage their anxiety, build resilience, and improve their overall well-being. Remember, as a parent, you play a vital role in supporting your child, and by incorporating HeartMath techniques, you can help your child thrive. Encourage your child to focus on their heart, practice coherent breathing, use positive self-talk, practice mindful awareness, and make HeartMath a daily habit. With your love, support, and consistent practice, your child can better manage their anxiety and have a more fulfilling life.

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